7th-8th Grade Programs

Stepping Up to the Plate

(90 min.) Through his use of 4 stories, one which brings a student out of the audience, Jim addresses the verbal and social violence most prevalent in these age groups. Students learn the devastating effects of rumors, cliques, and snide remarks as they are given a chance to do some writing about what’s true followed by discussion.

Through Jim’s facilitation, gang members have stood to apologize to their peers, popular clique leaders have vowed to be more inclusive, and shy students with low self-esteem have asked for friendship. Jim leads this age group masterfully toward acceptance, kindness, and authenticity.

Stories from Jim
Recently, an entire assembly of 7th and 8th grade students left with hope. An 8th grade student who was a member of a gang came to the front of the cafeteria. The assembly had been progressing for 3 hours. Buses were already positioned outside. He said “I know that you are scared of me. I know that I have been mean to many of you.” He then started to cry. “I am so sorry for my actions. All I really wanted is to have just one friend in this school.” Many students rushed the floor and offered to shake his hand or give him a hug.

A 14 year old female student came down to meet me in front of the stage. For the past 2 hours many students had apologized to other students. Many students offered forgiveness. However, when she took the microphone she said “I don’t want to be your friend. I just want you to leave me alone. You think I don’t know that I am heavy?  I know that I am heavy!” When she started to cry I ask if there was anyone in the audience who would like to come down and say something to her. Over 50 students stood in line offering her their apologies and their willingness to be her friend. The student left that day with some measure of hope.